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  Looking for Love (2.0)

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  Finding Those Micro Moments of Positivity Resonance (TODAY!)

  As we’ve discussed, I absolutely love Love 2.0 by Barbara Fredrickson. As a super-introverted guy, it’s easy for me to get lost in my own thought bubbles and forget to exit what Barbara calls our “cocoon of self-absorption.” In the process of spending so much time lost in our own thoughts and/or ...

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  To Inspire with Hope, Courage and Confidence

  Not too long ago, we talked about the shiny new Optimize Virtue Meditation we’re working on as part of our Optimize Coach program. I’ve been thinking a lot about the virtues in general and the meditation in particular—especially a sub-virtue to Love that I’d like to talk about Today. First, super...

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  Shakespeare and Spartans

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  Laconic Poets Say: “Brevity Is the Soul of Wit.”

  Once upon a time… When I had both a head full of hair and a mouth full of braces (hah!), my 6th-grade English teacher, Mrs. Ruscher taught me that: “Short and sweet is hard to beat.” (btw: Where’s the emoji for braces when you need it?!) Fast-forward a few years to me in high school studying Haml...

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  The Golden (+ Platinum!) Rule

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  How’re You Treating Others? AND… Yourself?

  We’ve all heard of the Golden Rule. But, today I have three quick questions: 1. Do you know just how ubiquitous that Golden Rule is across cultures? 2. Have you ever heard of the Platinum Rule? 3. Do you practice both? First: The Ubiquitous Golden Rule. I love the way Dale Carnegie puts it in How to Wi...

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  The New Sexy (Meet Your 10th Cranial Nerve)

  Your 10th cranial nerve starts at the base of your brain and then cruises down to your heart and thru your lungs and down into your gut. It kinda wanders. Which is why it’s called the vagus nerve—which, in Latin, literally means “wanderer.” (It shares a root with words like vagabond.) Why are we ...

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  Digital Sabbath

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  The Johnson House on Sundays (Yours?)

  In our last +1, we took a quick trip to our garage to recapture a potentially lost micro-moment as Eleanor and I filled up our water jug. (Little by little, drop by drop, btw!) Today we’re going to stay in the neighborhood and visit the Johnson house on a Sunday when we’re reinstituting our Digital S...

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  Reclaiming Lost Hours

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  By Making Everything (!) Our Practice

  Before we bid farewell to George Leonard, how about ONE more little idea from the Aikido (and life) master? This might be the most important Idea from his work we discuss, so sit up straight. (I just did as I typed this. 🤓) Here we go… George tells us: “Could all of us reclaim lost hours of our li...

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  Going the Second Mile

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  Jesus Says: It's the Way to Roll

  Do you know where the whole “go the second mile” concept comes from? Many of you probably know that it’s from the Bible where Jesus tells us to rock that second mile, but do you know WHY he said that? It’s kinda fascinating. Get this: According to Eric Butterworth (one of the great 20th century s...

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  Are You an Ambivert?

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  Extroverts, Introverts, and Ambiverts

  In To Sell Is Human, Dan Pink tells us about research Adam Grant has done on which personality types make the best salespeople. What’s your guess? Do you think EXTROVERTS are, on average, better salespeople? Or INTROVERTS? Hmmm… Whaddya say? Well, my friend. That’s another trick question. (Queue th...

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  Ever Had One?

  Brené Brown tells us that what we all really want from other people is for them to be authentic. And that means we need them to be vulnerable. And… Guess what the last thing is that any of us actually want to be? Yep. You guessed it. Vulnerable. Which (laughing) presents a little issue in our quest to...

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  How to Child-Proof Cover Your Trigger Buttons

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  Annoyed? Ask: How Am I That?

  In our last +1, we talked about shadows and attending your own lectures. Let’s continue the theme and talk about a great idea from The Power of Full Engagement. Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz give us another really powerful way to deal with that dis-integrated murky stuff we project onto others. Here’s ...

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  Fingers and Lectures

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  Remember: Attend Your Own Lectures

  Please extend your pointer finger and shake it as if you’re lecturing someone — saying something like, “You shouldn’t do this, this and this! Do that, that and that!” Thank you. Now, look at your hand and count how many fingers are pointing at the person you’re lecturing and how many fingers ...

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  Victim vs. Creator

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  The Question that Separates the Two

  In our last +1, we talked about David Emerald’s wisdom on the difference between living in The Dreaded Drama Triangle vs. The Empowerment Dynamic. The biggest lesson we want to take from that is the fact that we can either show up in life as a Victim or as a Creator. We talked about it before but quick...

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  The Empowerment Dynamic

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  vs. The Dreaded Drama Triangle

  David Emerald wrote a great little book called The Power of TED*. TED stands for “The Empowerment Dynamic.” David calls its opposite the “Dreaded Drama Triangle” or “DDT” for short. He tells us that it’s easy for us to live in DDT all day every day. We want to shift to The Empowerment Dynam...

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  How to Be Charismatic

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  Science Says: Presence + Power + Warmth

  Charisma. Most people think it’s something you either have or you don’t have. But… That’s a myth. As Olivia Fox Cabane tells us in The Charisma Myth, research shows that we can ALL learn how to dial up our charisma and become more magnetically connected to those around us. It’s a skill we can l...

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